Create or Quit…??
…That is the question.
It’s so easy to get beat down by failures. We want so badly to accomplish some goal, or dream, but every time something goes wrong, or not as planned. It’s like every step we take forward.. two more steps are instantly growing in front of us and the finish line just keeps inching farther away the closer we get, creating this endless treadmill effect where stuff’s happening, but we’re never really getting anywhere. Or maybe we just beat ourselves all together before we even start, by telling ourselves lies like “maybe it wasn’t meant to be,” and “it’s too hard,” or “it’s going to take too much time.”
…and what about “Time?” There’s another problem all together. It seems the older we get these failures of ours are a thousand times worse and harder to get past. The lies get bigger, let downs start hurting worse, and our pool of regrets just keep growing deeper and deeper, as our time gets shorter and shorter. We have this false expectancy and insatiable need for instant gratification and assume this is how the world works, and when we don’t get it, we want to give up all together…
We live in a world surrounded by instant gratification at every turn, and so we are always telling ourselves that we are waiting for that “one thing” that will make us successful, or rich, or famous. We call ourselves looking up to those that have made it… our role models if you will. But do we ever realize how much failure they went through before they could get to that illustrious plateau of success that we covet so much?
As a culture that worships at the altar of immediacy and instant gratification, we continue to romanticize the notion of the “overnight success,” overlooking the years of struggle and failure that paved the way for some of humanity’s most admired and accomplished luminaries.
“Expect anything worthwhile to take a long time,”…a wise woman once said.
I believe there is a common misconception these days about humanities most successful and enlightened people, how they’re somehow luckier or superior to us and that we could never hope to achieve a level of success as they did, and our lives could never be as successful… Well I challenge the ones that believe this to check their history. The truth is that many of the world’s “geniuses” were in fact, complete and utter failures for most of their lives.
This mythology and misconception of genius is exactly what British Filmaker Adam Westbrook explores in these amazing video essay mini-series “The Long Game” – a truly masterful feat of storytelling!
This is a two part series and the first video tackles the story of one of the world’s most celebrated artists, and my personal all time favorite: Leonardo da Vinci. It turns out that he didn’t get his big break until the age of 46, which was very old by that era’s life expectancy standards…
The Long Game Part 1: Why Leonardo DaVinci was no genius from Delve on Vimeo.
In the next series, Westbrook explores “Genius” even further, unveiling her secrets by focusing on “the difficult years” …those long dark years in a creative career that stand to separate those who preserver and end up being celebrated as geniuses, from the ones who just quit when things get hard, throwing in the towel, and never being heard from again. Westbrook reminds us that showing up no matter what, day in and day out, without fail is the surest way to the mastery of ones self and achieving lasting success.
The Long Game Part 2: the missing chapter from Delve on Vimeo.
“This celebration of youth, coupled with technology, has distorted our perception of time — the world moves faster, and so do our expectations. Today, we want success in seventeen levels, or seventeen minutes, seventeen seconds — and when the promise of something new and better is just a click away, who wants to wait seventeen years? But that’s the thing that connects all of these great people — they played the long game.
All of us have the brain, and the talent, and the creativity to join them. But now, right when it matters, do any of us have the patience?”
…It takes a lifetime of failures to pave a road to success. What separates the winners from the losers are the ones that keep going, no matter how long that road gets. The truth is, we never know how close we are to our dreams, and should never quit. You’re not dead yet, there’s still plenty of time. Just KEEP GOING!

…So what are your thoughts on achieving success? I hope you’ve enjoyed reading this post as much as I enjoyed writing it! As always any comments are appreciated so feel free to join the discussion. See you next time, and remember…

It’s easy to get overwhelmed; you have so many ideas, you don’t even know where to start. One way to get past this, is to trick ourselves. The truth is, we can be pretty hard on ourselves sometimes. But if we’re really serious about living a creative lifestyle, then the reality is we have nothing but time. As long as we keep notes, and sketches to work from, then we have our whole lives to finish. The deadlines are ours to make.






As a child, when flying cars and touch screens were only a dream in my imagination, and in the movies, I was a sci-fi junkie; and still am thank you. But today, all around us that far fetched science-fiction we grew up with is actually starting to become a reality. We now have working jet-packs, flying cars, touch-screens, 3D printers, cell phones, tablets and even robots… The future is on its way. It’s slightly different from the one painted in Back to the future that I was looking forward to ( no hover boards yet, unfortunately,) but we are actually getting those cool “
http://whatsnext.blogs.cnn.com/2013/05/09/is-this-finally-our-flying-car/

